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Peacock Lessons

MONDAY BYTES – June 17, 2013

The other week my mom was in town for the day and we toured the Cathedral of St. John the Divine and saw in the gardens—the peacocks.

This fellow above was the first one we met—and I just looked this up: white peacocks are NOT albino—who knew?

Apparently these Cathedral birds are so used to people that they regularly display their fans—proud and self-possessed, these creatures carry themselves with a sense of purpose, no apologies.

Peacocks can teach us a lot.

Onstage and off, we each have our particular feathers—attributes, qualities, and experience.

But all too often, in both our promotional materials and our stage demeanor, we shy away from owning our strengths. It’s like trying to deny who we really are. Like a white peacock trying to hide its feathers.

For this week: Strut your stuff—display your feathers. This isn’t about thinking that you’re better than others, but simply living your truth, being fully present and calm in your own YOUness.

When we celebrate our strengths, it gets easier to live in our own skin and also easier to deal with our weaknesses. And easier to appreciate the feathers of others—without feeling envy or resentment. I don’t think the white fellow above envies the feathers of his colleague below.

While you’re at it this week, then take a look at your PR materials and ask yourself—are you showing your feathers?

For extra help: For more ideas on self-promotion, including practical tips and fresh perspectives, here’s a Polyphonic webinar on Branding (interesting panel presentation I took part in).

For info on working with me: details are HERE.

Dream big, Plan smart, Live well!

What Are You Waiting For?

MONDAY BYTES – June 10, 2013

I recently attended an immersive 4-day training program for entrepreneurship educators—I invested 4 full days (and evenings) and all of my attention. It was an excellent program and in almost every session we were asked, “What concrete practical action are you going to take as a result of this?”

So over the 4 days we were repeatedly asked to make a commitment to taking action. Not just to get informed or inspired, but to do something about it!

The truth is we all attend conferences, participate in webinars, or work with consultants because we want to make improvements in our lives. But all too often we end up going back to our busy and distracted lives and go back to business as usual.

Real change takes more than investing our time and attention, more than getting inspired and informed—it takes ACTION.

For this week: To make an improvement to your work and life this week, what action are you going to take?

PS: For help on thinking this through, see the Actor’s Advocate Dallas Travers’ short video (the relationship between inspiration and action).

PPS: Here’s the corrected link (thank you Raymundo!) to last week’s 10 minute cool video—a short film of images paired with an excerpt from David Foster Wallace’s commencement address: This is Water.

PPPS: I have a NEW WEBSITE, thanks to Mari Nakano, terrific designer and clear thinker—YAY! And the excellent photographer Janette Beckman—wahoo!

For info on working with me: details are HERE.

Dream big, Plan smart, Live well!

It’s Your Choice: Making Meaning

MONDAY BYTES – June 3, 2013

In the midst of our busy lives, it’s important to periodically hit the “pause” button and figure out what’s going on in our own thinking. I stumbled upon this short 9 minute video: a provocative commencement address excerpt by David Foster Wallace that has been paired with an engaging video. Worth watching because it examines what it actually means to be educated and what the point of it all is. Wallace nails the capital “T” Truth in This is Water.

It’s about choice: We each get to decide what has meaning.

For this week: Write down what has meaning for you and take a moment to think about it. See how tuning in to this can transform your day, your week, and beyond.

PS: I have a NEW WEBSITE, thanks to Mari Nakano, terrific designer and clear thinker—YAY! And the excellent photographer Janette Beckman—wahoo!

For info on working with me: details are HERE.

Dream big, Plan smart, Live well!